Here you are pregnant with an awesome little girl and you aren't enjoying it to the fullest!  Yes, your grateful that God chose you for this little one and yes your grateful that your time has finally come to be a mommy! But loosen up!
Enjoy these last few months you have your hubby all to yourself! Hold hands, go on dates, and snuggle on the couch as much as possible! Because when little girl comes, these times will come few and far between!
Be proud of that ever growing baby bump!  Its yours!!! You prayed hard for it! Its heaven sent and its beautiful! Show it off!! Stand tall!! And stop calling it fat!!! :( Prance around the house naked if you want!  Be Sexy if you want! Whatever you do, be proud! Your hubby is! And that's your baby girl in there!
Stop worrying!!!!! Everything will get done in time! It will be perfect, and if it isn't, so what?? R will be!! And she wont love you any less! And know that God is forever looking over your precious angel! So give him some credit, and stop worrying!!! Its in His hands and He happens to be perfect!! And really good at what he does!
And lastly.... indulge if you want to, exercise if you want, don't exercise if you want, eat ice cream morning, noon or night if you want! But stop being your worst critic! You are growing a human and you deserve to splurge!! Don't worry,  you'll work it all off once she is here and you'll be perfect!
Love yourself and the fact that your able to have this experience!
Yours truly, 
Rebecca